That's a great question, Matthew. I've found that the harder you hold on to anything, the more it slips through your fingers... this can be a job, money, relationship or even your own health. Jealousy, defensiveness and obsessing don't lead you down a good path.

When you plant a seed, you can water it, fertilize it, make sure it gets enough light, but there comes a time when you need to walk away. You literally need to give it up and let nature take its course, or you'll nurture it to death. So, if it leads to growth, I'm willing to let go of quite a bit.

Interesting question, many answers....