Watch my video below and have a discussion with your closest buddies.

You know, the men who got your back and will be there for your wife and kids. The friends who will initiate the first smile and laugh that life goes-on from your wife and kids. The small circle of friends who will take turns dancing with your wife to your favorite song. The men who will equip your kids when they are old enough to leave the house and start their life.

Here are some questions you may not have answers to...

1. Burial or cremated? Location of where you want to be laid to rest?

2. Viewing of your body or not?

3. Wake or  funeral?

4. What songs will be played?

5. What pictures displayed?

6. Who do you want to dance with your wife to your favorite song? 

7. Who will body-slam the dude who gets caught-up in the emotion and tries to dance with your wife?

8. Indoor or outdoor?

9. Who will speak? Planned or Un-planned?

10. Alcohol or no? If a wake-who are the chosen few to attend one last toast and lighting of a candle in memory of you?

11. Surprise last thoughts video by you or not?

12. What symbolic stories and "things" do you want shared?

You get the picture...now watch the video.